Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Good Marriages are No Accident!

We have just concluded our 4 week teaching series on marriage, titled Wedding Vows. Many couples have shared that they now are refocusing on their spouse & that they weren't even aware of some "little" things that they have neglected in their marriage.

The book, Love Is a Decision, lists the following six elements as being essential to staying in love:

  1. Making your spouse feel truly honored
  2. Learning the art of touching—tenderly
  3. Keeping courtship alive in your marriage
  4. Re-opening a heart closed by anger
  5. Building—or rebuilding—trust in a relationship
  6. Becoming best friends with your family

Love as a feeling doesn't last very long & it certainly is not strong enough to hold a marriage together through every storm! Love does not just happen by luck or coincidence. Love is a Decision.

True love is waking up every day committed to honoring your mate by focusing on the six elements listed above. A great marriage is possible & is up to you.

Blessings!

Jeff

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